Refactor stats to use atomics (#375)

* Refactor stats to use atomics

When we are dealing with a high number of connections, generated
stats cannot be consumed fast enough by the stats collector loop.
This makes the stats subsystem inconsistent and a log of
warning messages are thrown due to unregistered server/clients.

This change refactors the stats subsystem so it uses atomics:

- Now counters are handled using U64 atomics
- Event system is dropped and averages are calculated using a loop
  every 15 seconds.
- Now, instead of snapshots being generated ever second we keep track of servers/clients
  that have registered. Each pool/server/client has its own instance of the counter and
  makes changes directly, instead of adding an event that gets processed later.

* Manually mplement Hash/Eq in `config::Address` ignoring stats

* Add tests for client connection counters

* Allow connecting to dockerized dev pgcat from the host

* stats: Decrease cl_idle when idle socket disconnects

Cargo.lock

@@ -37,6 +37,17 @@ dependencies = [
  "syn 2.0.9",
 ]
 
+[[package]]
+name = "atomic_enum"
+version = "0.2.0"
+source = "registry+https://github.com/rust-lang/crates.io-index"
+checksum = "6227a8d6fdb862bcb100c4314d0d9579e5cd73fa6df31a2e6f6e1acd3c5f1207"
+dependencies = [
+ "proc-macro2",
+ "quote",
+ "syn",
+]
+
 [[package]]
 name = "autocfg"
 version = "1.1.0"
@@ -720,6 +731,7 @@ version = "1.0.0"
 dependencies = [
  "arc-swap",
  "async-trait",
+ "atomic_enum",
  "base64",
  "bb8",
  "bytes",