Refactor stats to use atomics (#375)

* Refactor stats to use atomics

When we are dealing with a high number of connections, generated
stats cannot be consumed fast enough by the stats collector loop.
This makes the stats subsystem inconsistent and a log of
warning messages are thrown due to unregistered server/clients.

This change refactors the stats subsystem so it uses atomics:

- Now counters are handled using U64 atomics
- Event system is dropped and averages are calculated using a loop
  every 15 seconds.
- Now, instead of snapshots being generated ever second we keep track of servers/clients
  that have registered. Each pool/server/client has its own instance of the counter and
  makes changes directly, instead of adding an event that gets processed later.

* Manually mplement Hash/Eq in `config::Address` ignoring stats

* Add tests for client connection counters

* Allow connecting to dockerized dev pgcat from the host

* stats: Decrease cl_idle when idle socket disconnects

tests/ruby/spec_helper.rb

@@ -19,3 +19,10 @@ ensure
   STDOUT.reopen(sout)
   STDERR.reopen(serr)
 end
+
+def clients_connected_to_pool(pool_index: 0, processes:)
+  admin_conn = PG::connect(processes.pgcat.admin_connection_string)
+  results = admin_conn.async_exec("SHOW POOLS")[pool_index]
+  admin_conn.close
+  results['cl_idle'].to_i + results['cl_active'].to_i + results['cl_waiting'].to_i
+end