Reimplement prepared statements with LRU cache and statement deduplication (#618)

* Initial commit

* Cleanup and add stats

* Use an arc instead of full clones to store the parse packets

* Use mutex instead

* fmt

* clippy

* fmt

* fix?

* fix?

* fmt

* typo

* Update docs

* Refactor custom protocol

* fmt

* move custom protocol handling to before parsing

* Support describe

* Add LRU for server side statement cache

* rename variable

* Refactoring

* Move docs

* Fix test

* fix

* Update tests

* trigger build

* Add more tests

* Reorder handling sync

* Support when a named describe is sent along with Parse (go pgx) and expecting results

* don't talk to client if not needed when client sends Parse

* fmt :(

* refactor tests

* nit

* Reduce hashing

* Reducing work done to decode describe and parse messages

* minor refactor

* Merge branch 'main' into zain/reimplment-prepared-statements-with-global-lru-cache

* Rewrite extended and prepared protocol message handling to better support mocking response packets and close

* An attempt to better handle if there are DDL changes that might break cached plans with ideas about how to further improve it

* fix

* Minor stats fixed and cleanup

* Cosmetic fixes (#64)

* Cosmetic fixes

* fix test

* Change server drop for statement cache error to a `deallocate all`

* Updated comments and added new idea for handling DDL changes impacting cached plans

* fix test?

* Revert test change

* trigger build, flakey test

* Avoid potential race conditions by changing get_or_insert to promote for pool LRU

* remove ps enabled variable on the server in favor of using an option

* Add close to the Extended Protocol buffer

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Co-authored-by: Lev Kokotov <levkk@users.noreply.github.com>

pgcat.toml

@@ -60,12 +60,6 @@ tcp_keepalives_count = 5
 # Number of seconds between keepalive packets.
 tcp_keepalives_interval = 5
 
-# Handle prepared statements.
-prepared_statements = true
-
-# Prepared statements server cache size.
-prepared_statements_cache_size = 500
-
 # Path to TLS Certificate file to use for TLS connections
 # tls_certificate = ".circleci/server.cert"
 # Path to TLS private key file to use for TLS connections
@@ -156,6 +150,10 @@ load_balancing_mode = "random"
 # `primary` all queries go to the primary unless otherwise specified.
 default_role = "any"
 
+# Prepared statements cache size.
+# TODO: update documentation
+prepared_statements_cache_size = 500
+
 # If Query Parser is enabled, we'll attempt to parse
 # every incoming query to determine if it's a read or a write.
 # If it's a read query, we'll direct it to a replica. Otherwise, if it's a write,