This commit adds infrastruture for repmgr to be able to check
whether one standby can attach to another node, regardless whether
it is a standby or a primary.
This is intended to prevent a node from attempting to follow a
node whose timeline has diverged. The --dry-run option makes
it possible to test a follow operation before it is carried out.
As a useful side-effect this makes it possible for a standby to
follow another standby.
This is an initial implementation; documentation and possibly
further changes to follow.
There are now too many options to sensibly fit into general --help
output; we'll add separate output for each repmgr command, e.g.
"repmgr node --help".
"standby follow" was originally co-opted to start up a demoted node;
this functionality is now delegated to "node rejoin", with the core
functionality of "standby follow" implemented as an internal function.
