Currently the (very generic sounding) "standby_reconnect_timeout" configuration
file parameter is used in several different contexts and it would be useful
to have more granular control over the different timeouts it's used to configure.
This patch introduces "node_rejoin_timeout", used in place of "standby_reconnect_timeout"
(which wasn't documented) when "repmgr node rejoin" is executed, to determine
how long to wait for the node to rejoin the replication cluster.
Additionally "repmgrd_standby_startup_timeout" is introduced as a timeout for
failover situations, when repmgrd executes "repmgr standby follow" to follow
a new primary, and waits for the standby to restart and become available
for connections.
"standby_reconnect_timeout" is now only relevant for "repmgr standby switchover".
Implements GitHub #454.